I saw after it is 30Kg. I think it cannot be considered 'manageable' - think about your suitcase at the airport; over 28KG and they sticky a 'heavy' label on it.
For me the extras you mention aren't an issue. City commuter, so realistically 10-20miles max in a day, so that would be covered by the range (I used to be able to do four trips - 10miles each on my Tesla before charging).
Whilst @Funky is looking for sub 20KG, I don't mind being in/around 20-25kg since I'm kind of used to it. That said, design ergonomics could possibly help with making a wheel feel more manageable.
Perfect wheel for me would be 16inch, 50mile range, 45mph top speed (for head room purposes) and some element of light suspension to help with those pot holes I don't see. In a nice Inmotion V12 like package (I find the current trends a bit OTT aesthetically) at 23KG! Seems like such a wheel doesn't exist and won't exist as the trend continues for faster and heavier.